WELCOME FEEDBACKS!!!


Growth is essential, important, compulsory etc for our subsistence. Yet occasionally we reject/avoid that,which has us grow…Feedbacks.Though displeasing at times,feedbacks make us aware of possible blind spot,which can cost us much.we should always learn to accept feedbacks. Accepting a feedback doesn’t make us weak,no!!! It only makes us a lot stronger (what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger). So come on!!! Let’s live lyf to the fullest and accept corrections and live a easy going lyf. Imagine we are inside a plane that is about to take off with a missing wing, which can only be spotted from the outside the plane. Would we appreciate someone from outside letting us know about this,before we take off? Feedbacks gives us that outsider’s view on our blind spot, which can cost us our lives,if gone undetected.

ATTITUDE/MINDSET



 

Today we can complain because the weather is rainyπŸ˜₯ or be thankful that the grass is getting watered for free😜.Today we can grumble about our health or thank GOD that we are aliveπŸ™Œ…Today we can be bitter for not having more money or be glad that our finances encourages us to place our purchases wisely.Today we can lament about all that our parents didn’t give us while growing up or feel grateful that we were given birth to.Today we can murmur because I have to do housework or feel honored for having a home.

I’M UNIQUE/SPECIAL…πŸ‘πŸ™ŒβœŒπŸŽ€πŸ˜πŸ’‹πŸ‘ŒπŸ‘πŸ‘πŸŽ†

I’m special and unique.In this entire world,there is no 1 lyk me!!!πŸ™ŒβœŒπŸ‘ŒπŸ’‹.since God created the world,there has never been another person lyk me!!!😁nobody has my smile that brightens people. Nobody certainly has my nose,my hair,my hands,my voice.I’m~special~β€’^Β°πŸ˜ŠπŸ˜ŽπŸ˜œπŸ‘­

             No one has my handwriting.Nobody has my taste for food or music.No one sees things as I do.No one can ever laugh lyk me…no one cries lyk me…I am special

             Oh there will always be some1 better at one of d things I am gud @,but no one in d universe can reach the quality of room full of musical instruments.Forever and ever no 1 will Eva look,talk,walk,think,pray,dance,react,love,or do anything like I would.I AM SPECIAL, I’M RARE…And in all rarity there is great value.

   

HOW TO WIN AND INFLUENCE FRIENDS 2…πŸŽ†πŸ’žβ€#Just listen

When people ask you to listen and you start giving advice,you are not listening. When people ask you to listen and you begin to tell dem DAT dey shouldn’t feel dat way,you are just trampling on the persons feelings. When I ask you to listen to me and you feel you have to do something to solve my problem, as weird as dat may seem you ve failed me.

           *LISTEN!!! All that I asked was DAT u listen to me and not talk about aw you can save d day…Most people just like it wen you listen to what dey have to say not because you are not a good adviser but because they like to feel important and listening to what dey ve to say sometimes can solve d problem. Advice is cheep.They aren’t helpless maybe discouraged but certainly not helpless…So please listen and just hear me…

Epictetus once said:

           β€œNature gave us one tongue and two ears so we could hear twice as much as we speak”-Epictetus

But I say: β€œGOD gave us one tongue and two ears so we could hear twice as much as we speak ”-!!!

Thanks guys…keep in touchπŸ‘πŸ’‹πŸ‘ŒπŸ’žπŸ’•

How to win and influence friends!!!πŸŽŠπŸŽ‰β˜Ί

 win friends and influence friends is not a hard task,but it might be if you don’t follow these steps

1.DON’T CRITICISE CONDEMN OR COMPLAIN: I once read a story in Dale Carnegie’s book a man,a well known killer was at his apartment when the police were firing into his apartmen, he wrote a letter addressed to β€˜who it may concern.’And he wrote,the good flowing from his wounds left a crimson trail on the paper. In the letter,he wrote β€œunder my coat is a weary heart,but a kind one, one that will do nobody any harm.” This was the same that shot a police man for asking for his driving license. But what he said when he was sentenced to electric chair β€œThis is what I get defending myself”

             The point of the whole story is that he didn’t blame himself for anything and we also should stop criticizing and condemning people we never know what they are going through until we experience it.so, don’t blame people without thinking about what they are going through.people don’t criticize themselves for anything no matter how wrong it may be.Criticism can be very dangerous, it can wound someone’s pride,hurt their sense of importance and bring about resentment. Hans selye a great psychologist once said β€˜As much as people thrust for approval, we dread condemnation’…more will come your way soon…keep in touch guysπŸ’•

Forget New Years Resolution…

One of our favorite stories,is about a man.Now this man is walking down a path and finds an egg…An eagles egg he takes the egg and puts it into the nest of a backyard hen.Pretty soon,the eagle hatches with the chicks and grows up with them.Now,all his life,the eagle did what the chickens did.He would poke around in the dirt looking for worms and insects to eat,he would fly a few feet’s into the air like chickens,he would cluck around and as time passed, that eagle,he grew very old and one day,he saw something above him.This thing,it glided gracefully and majestically through the cloud.

β€œWhat that?” he asked

β€œOh that?That’s an eagle” one of the chickens responds

β€œhe is the king of all birds.The master of the skies but we belong to the ground because we are just chickens. Don’t worry about him,you will never be that and the eagle lived and died a chicken because that is what he thought he was.

               This new year, it is time to take flight.You and I know that you don’t belong were you are right now.You don’t belong with some other people you are around right now.You have got no business doing what you are doing right now.You are being a chicken when you were born an eagle.

                 So now, the question is how long is it gonna take to make the decision? To make a shift?And show some courage, show some character. That word β€œcharacter” is funny.You know character, is the ability to carry out a resolution long after the excitement of the moment has passed. Are you gonna say you wanna do something… Do it for two weeks and then quit like you last year?Like you did the year before last?You say you wanna loose weight, get your business off the ground,get closer to GOD and then turn around and party,get lit,drink alcohol, eat like crap and continue to live below who you were created to be.Thereby committing the greatest sin known to man….No,no,no,no,no..I’m not trying to get too religious, but I’m gonna take you to church, watch this, see the word β€œsin” comes from the Greek word sin used in archery,it means to MISS YOUR MARK.The greatest sin in life,is to miss your mark,to not be who you were created to be,to be a chicken instead of an eagle.I don’t know if you guys remember,uhhh…the story of Icarus.A lot of people remember Icarus being this guy with his wings made out of wax,his father cautioned him not to fly too high or the sun will melt his wings and what happened? It was Icarus’s arrogance that caused him  to fly too high,sun melted his wings and…boom…fell to the earth dead.But that’s not the full story no,no,no,you didn’t know there was more to it.See,Icarus’s father also cautioned him against flying too low,he said don’t fly too close to the sea or your weight will cause you to plummet to the water.

                  See,we all know not to be too arrogant…Well most of us.But, how many of us know not to be too HUMBLE, TOO MEEK,TOO TIMID,TOO SHY,TOO SAFE? It is said that the greatest tradegy in life is not that people aim too high and miss,it is that people aim too low and hit. I see a lot of people on Facebook everywhere, Instagram talking about the Friend Zone.

β€œHa Ha” laughing. He’s in the friend zone look, the hover hand.But,I don’t see too many people talking about the other zone,THE COMFORT ZONE ..Ain’t no memes about that…Ain’t no joke…You know why? Because a lot of you ain’t there. Well,in the new year, let’s step out of our comfort zone.

              Fortune favors the bold and it is the cave that you fear that you fear that would holds the treasure that you desire.Forget the new years resolution, forget it.Lets make a new life resolution, to be fully and authentically you.I don’t know what dream you have but I can guarantee you, there is somebody in the hospital right now praying, begging God to have the opportunity that you have right now.Don’t blow it!!It is time to go from mediocre to meteoric.It is time to go from being counted out to being counted on…It is time to fly like the eagle you are or do you want to continue to cluck like a chicken??………… Note,this was gotten from a video

FEAR!!!

  • There he was standing like the devil himself,he didn’t even give me a chance to run into were looked like heavenπŸ˜₯…I was alone in the dark with him,it was so dirty there, and the smell??…I always dreamt about moving to the light but I didn’t know how to…GoshπŸ˜₯, it was seriously annoying, I dreamt about the light but couldn’t have a glimpse at it…Wow! Do you know how it felt like to know a place as beautiful as heaven was so close and yet I couldn’t reach it?? Well,if you don’t, it’s awfully horrible;you wouldn’t even start to imagine the horror.Fear is so dangerous,many people think this is a small case but it appears to be more than that…It cages the real YOU…Many times I will be called for one reason or the other even to sing to MY GOD on d assembly was a huge problem…Now it’s not like I didn’t wanna but I was too worried about  the IF’S! (What if my mouth begins to smell?…what if the people beside me hear my voice and end up not liking it??…What if people start looking at me???…what if this,what if that….) Rather than worry I wasn’t praising GOD,the owner of my life, my creator…it took a while to heal and finally realize that their opinions don’t really matter… Except you really need help and you are probably like the devils brother or somethingβ˜ΊπŸ˜‰…Wow!I hit Mr fear in the face and he  fellπŸ™Œ…wow,he actually fell..I ran to the light and guess what,it looked exactly how I dreamt it looked like,paradise.Whew, that was a relief.We all have dreams…pls don’t let them go because of Mr FEAR

#Awaken the sleeping giant


We all have dreams…We all want to believe deep down in our souls that we have a special gift,that we can make a difference, that we can touch others in a special way☺, and that we can make the world a better place.At one time in our lives, we all have visions for the quality of life that we no longer even make efforts to accomplish them.For far too many, the dream has dissipated and with it, so has the will to shape our destinies. Many have lost the sense  of certainty that creates the winners edge.My life’s quest has been to restore the dream and make it real,to get each of us to awaken the sleeping giant that lies asleep between us all..