Who you are makes everything perfectΒ 

I know how you feel. You feel like your life doesn’t matter, like you have nothing in this world to live for… You start to think β€œoh my life is a living hell ”,β€œoh,i don’t think I can do this job…nobody will come”…But, when you going to say, β€œI have had it! I know I am much more than I’m demonstrating mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually ” You have to show the devil that he doesn’t own your life and you can start that business if you want to, you have to show the devil that you can be rich if you are only determined. You know, it’s not your fault if you were born poor but, it’s going to be your fault if you die poor. I don’t know how many of you have felt like you haven’t accomplished your goal… It’s like this feeling that you are not where you are supposed to be right now, you are not doing what you are suppose to do, it’s okay to feel that way but is it okay to stay that way? NO!  It’s  not, you can’t keep letting the devil to have his way in your life, he doesn’t own your life, God does  and he will make a way. You want to start a business and you’re thinking about how to start,about the money or if people will like it?  Just start with something small you don’t necessarily have to have that much. You can start a blog if you’re good at writing and stuff, you can do an online business or a vlog or something…when we focus consistently on improvement in any area, we develop unique distinctions on how to make that area better. You know, one of the reasons why people don’t achieve what they truly want is that we never direct our focus, we never concentrate our power. Most people dabble their way through life, never deciding to master any thing in particular… That is a major problem. I believe and think that one of the reasons people fail in life is simply because they they major in the minor things..   They panic thinking about what people will say,people would always talk but life is 10% what happens to you and 90% percent how you react to it

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WELCOME FEEDBACKS!!!


Growth is essential, important, compulsory etc for our subsistence. Yet occasionally we reject/avoid that,which has us grow…Feedbacks.Though displeasing at times,feedbacks make us aware of possible blind spot,which can cost us much.we should always learn to accept feedbacks. Accepting a feedback doesn’t make us weak,no!!! It only makes us a lot stronger (what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger). So come on!!! Let’s live lyf to the fullest and accept corrections and live a easy going lyf. Imagine we are inside a plane that is about to take off with a missing wing, which can only be spotted from the outside the plane. Would we appreciate someone from outside letting us know about this,before we take off? Feedbacks gives us that outsider’s view on our blind spot, which can cost us our lives,if gone undetected.

ATTITUDE/MINDSET

 

Today we can complain because the weather is rainyπŸ˜₯ or be thankful that the grass is getting watered for free😜.Today we can grumble about our health or thank GOD that we are aliveπŸ™Œ…Today we can be bitter for not having more money or be glad that our finances encourages us to place our purchases wisely.Today we can lament about all that our parents didn’t give us while growing up or feel grateful that we were given birth to.Today we can murmur because we have to do housework or feel honored for having a home.

I’M UNIQUE/SPECIAL…πŸ‘πŸ™ŒβœŒπŸŽ€πŸ˜πŸ’‹πŸ‘ŒπŸ‘πŸ‘πŸŽ†

I’m special and unique.In this entire world,there is no 1 lyk me!!!πŸ™ŒβœŒπŸ‘ŒπŸ’‹.since God created the world,there has never been another person lyk me!!!😁nobody has my smile that brightens people. Nobody certainly has my nose,my hair,my hands,my voice.I’m~special~β€’^Β°πŸ˜ŠπŸ˜ŽπŸ˜œπŸ‘­

             No one has my handwriting.Nobody has my taste for food or music.No one sees things as I do.No one can ever laugh lyk me…no one cries lyk me…I am special

             Oh there will always be some1 better at one of d things I am gud @,but no one in d universe can reach the quality of room full of musical instruments.Forever and ever no 1 will Eva look,talk,walk,think,pray,dance,react,love,or do anything like I would.I AM SPECIAL, I’M RARE…And in all rarity there is great value.

   

HOW TO WIN AND INFLUENCE FRIENDS 2…πŸŽ†πŸ’žβ€#Just listen

When people ask you to listen and you start giving advice,you are not listening. When people ask you to listen and you begin to tell dem DAT dey shouldn’t feel dat way,you are just trampling on the persons feelings. When I ask you to listen to me and you feel you have to do something to solve my problem, as weird as dat may seem you ve failed me.

           *LISTEN!!! All that I asked was DAT u listen to me and not talk about aw you can save d day…Most people just like it wen you listen to what dey have to say not because you are not a good adviser but because they like to feel important and listening to what dey ve to say sometimes can solve d problem. Advice is cheep.They aren’t helpless maybe discouraged but certainly not helpless…So please listen and just hear me…

Epictetus once said:

           β€œNature gave us one tongue and two ears so we could hear twice as much as we speak”-Epictetus

But I say: β€œGOD gave us one tongue and two ears so we could hear twice as much as we speak ”-!!!

Thanks guys…keep in touchπŸ‘πŸ’‹πŸ‘ŒπŸ’žπŸ’•

How to win and influence friends!!!πŸŽŠπŸŽ‰β˜Ί

 win friends and influence friends is not a hard task,but it might be if you don’t follow these steps

1.DON’T CRITICISE CONDEMN OR COMPLAIN: I once read a story in Dale Carnegie’s book a man,a well known killer was at his apartment when the police were firing into his apartmen, he wrote a letter addressed to β€˜who it may concern.’And he wrote,the good flowing from his wounds left a crimson trail on the paper. In the letter,he wrote β€œunder my coat is a weary heart,but a kind one, one that will do nobody any harm.” This was the same that shot a police man for asking for his driving license. But what he said when he was sentenced to electric chair β€œThis is what I get defending myself”

             The point of the whole story is that he didn’t blame himself for anything and we also should stop criticizing and condemning people we never know what they are going through until we experience it.so, don’t blame people without thinking about what they are going through.people don’t criticize themselves for anything no matter how wrong it may be.Criticism can be very dangerous, it can wound someone’s pride,hurt their sense of importance and bring about resentment. Hans selye a great psychologist once said β€˜As much as people thrust for approval, we dread condemnation’…more will come your way soon…keep in touch guysπŸ’•